This is not your average self-help book. This is a flamethrower in book form.

Unruly is your invitation to burn down the shame, rewrite the rules, and finally call B.S. on the systems that told you your body, pleasure, and voice were “too much.”

Equal parts science, sass, and searing truth, this neuro-inclusive, trauma-informed guide is here to help you:

  • Detox from purity culture, body shame, and patriarchal programming
  • Understand the neuroscience of pleasure, unlearning, and desire
  • Unmask your true self—without apology, permission, or a single pearl clutched
  • Reclaim your pleasure on your own terms (no fragile men allowed)

If you’ve ever faked an orgasm, apologized for existing, or felt like healing required you to be quiet and pretty about it—this book says: absolutely not.

It’s feminist rage therapy meets sex ed meets a permission slip to be completely, wildly you.

Caution: May cause spontaneous swearing, deep belly laughs, and a sudden urge to say “no” with your whole chest.